First Inner Shift

So, while I was searching for an image for the prior post and looking at lots of images of lovers and love, I experienced a feeling of LIGHTNESS (totally my favorite feeling!). I felt light because I knew that no matter the current state of my marriage, I AM BEING PROACTIVE in creating a healthy, loving marriage. That's all I need to make me happy. I have a strong need to know that I'm doing the right thing. I may not usually have the luxury of knowing that I'm doing the right thing, but when I do, I can feel it. I'm doing the right thing for my marriage. I'm going to add "to do the right thing" AND "to know I'm doing the right thing" to the needs list in my prior post.